Modern Day Romance // How to Tell Someone You Fancy Them in 2025

In 2025, telling someone you fancy them doesn’t come with a rulebook—well, except for maybe a few social media guidelines, text message etiquette, and a couple of memes. But hey, whether you’re sliding into DMs, texting, or navigating a face-to-face conversation, confessing your feelings can still be exciting and fun!

So, how exactly do you go about telling someone you fancy them without the awkwardness of a rom-com meet-cute gone wrong? Don’t worry—we’ve got you covered with this lighthearted guide on how to let someone know you’ve got a little crush on them in 2025. Spoiler alert: It’s not as terrifying as you might think!

1. Let’s Talk About Texting: The Subtle Art of the Emoji

In 2025, texting is still one of the go-to ways to show you’re interested. But you can’t just send a random "hey" and hope for the best (unless you want to be left on read—yikes). No, no, no. To tell someone you fancy them over text, you need to play it cool, but with a little flair.

Start by being a bit cheeky but casual. You could say something like, “I’ve been thinking… I might have a tiny crush on you 😏.” Or if you’re feeling bolder, try something like, “You know, every time I talk to you, I get this weirdly nice feeling. I think you might be my person 😅.”

Now, the emoji game is key! Use them wisely: a wink, a heart, or a sunglasses emoji can add a playful vibe to your message. Too many emojis can be a bit much, though, so keep it light!

Pro Tip: If you’re not sure if they’re into you too, you can test the waters with a flirty meme or a “just a joke” line to see how they respond. If they play along, you’re in!

2. The Voice Note Approach: Smooth and Casual

For some, texting feels too impersonal, and that’s where voice notes come in! 2025 is all about that spontaneous, but still personal touch. If you’re comfortable with it, send a voice note that gives a little glimpse into your feelings. Something like:

“Hey, so, I was wondering if you ever get that feeling where someone’s just so easy to talk to, and you feel kind of… special around them? Yeah, that’s me around you. So, um, I think I might be into you? 😅”

It’s not too much, but it’s enough to let them know you’re interested in a light, fun way. Plus, hearing your voice makes it more personal!

Pro Tip: If voice notes aren’t your thing, no worries! Just text it out, but make sure it’s still warm and casual. You don’t need to be Shakespeare to make someone smile.

3. The In-Person Approach: Keep It Chill, Keep It Real

Now, if you’re someone who likes face-to-face interactions (bless you, brave soul), it might be time to have that honest conversation in person. Don’t stress—it doesn’t have to be a big “moment.” In fact, the more chill you are, the less pressure you put on yourself.

A relaxed approach might look something like:

“Hey, I’ve been meaning to tell you… I think I kind of like you. Like, a little more than just a friend, you know?”

Keep it simple and lighthearted. You don’t have to go into a full speech about your feelings—just say it, but in a way that shows you’re open and relaxed about it. And hey, if you get nervous, throw in a joke to break the tension! Something like, “I mean, don’t panic, but yeah, you’ve got a fan over here 😅.”

Pro Tip: If you’re worried about messing up, don’t overthink it! Sometimes, the simplest, most genuine words can go a long way. “I think you’re amazing” is a solid start.

4. The Classic "Compliment-That’s-Also-a-Crush" Combo

Here’s a tried-and-true method: give them a compliment that shows you’re into them, but without spelling it out directly. For example, you could say something like:

“I don’t know how you do it, but you always seem to look amazing, and I love your energy. Honestly, I’m starting to think I might have a little crush on you…”

This way, it feels like a compliment but with a side of flirtation. It’s sweet, light, and doesn’t make it too intense. The beauty of this approach is that you can gauge their response. If they smile and get a little flustered, you’ll know you’ve got a good vibe!

Pro Tip: Compliments don’t have to be all about their looks. Compliment their sense of humor, kindness, or how they make you feel. It adds depth to your feelings.

5. The “Confess Through a Song/Playlist” Move

Okay, so this one’s for the creative souls out there. If you’re not great with words, why not let music do the talking? Curate a playlist with songs that express how you feel, then send it over with a message like:

“Okay, I might not be great with words, but these songs say everything. Maybe you’ll get the hint 😉.”

Songs are a great way to share your feelings without making things too awkward or intense. And if they get the message (fingers crossed!), you’ll have a perfect excuse to talk more about it. Plus, you’ll look super thoughtful and creative!

Pro Tip: Make sure the playlist isn’t too “over-the-top romantic” unless you’re ready to go full throttle. Keep it light and fun!

6. The "I’m Too Cool for School" Move (A Little Distance with Mystery)

Want to keep it mysterious? Maybe you’re feeling a little unsure about putting yourself out there in a big way. No worries—you can still express interest without laying it all on the table. Drop a comment like:

“Okay, don’t think I’m crazy, but every time I see you, I’m like ‘Wow, this person is seriously cool.’ It’s kind of distracting in the best way.”

It’s flirty, it’s subtle, and it leaves the ball in their court to respond however they like.

Pro Tip: Let them make the next move. If they’re into you too, they’ll start dropping their own hints right back!

Telling someone you fancy them in 2025 doesn’t need to be a scene straight out of a rom-com. It’s all about being authentic, playful, and not taking yourself too seriously. Whether you text, voice note, or make it a face-to-face conversation, the most important thing is to be genuine and have fun with it!

So go ahead, get your crush on and let them know you fancy them—2025 style! Just remember to be yourself, keep it light, and, most importantly, enjoy the butterflies along the way.